Last week, in my effort to seek divine help on the personal struggle that I was dealing, I learned that being more thankful on every blessing and good thing is one effective way to live happy.
Last week´s sabbath lesson challenged me to write the top ten things I am most thankful right now, to take a moment to thank God in prayer, and then observe the difference on my perspective afterwards. I did. I kept my note because I thought I would love to share it with you. So here are the things I´m very grateful.
1. A happy marriage - I´m a little less than two years married to my husband and for the entire time, I´m happy with him. He´s very loving, caring, thoughtful, fun and responsible. Although some personal differences at times come between us, we find ways to iron them. He loves me so much and that makes me love him even more.
2. Good health that I, my husband, my family and my friends have - good health is something I never miss thanking God whenever I speak to Him in prayer. Without it, one can never fully enjoy life. I´m always thankful to God that He keeps me, my husband, my mom and my dad, my siblings, my loved ones, my in-laws, and my friends healthy and safe.
3. A job I love - after years of praying for a job that would truly make me happy, God granted it. I can´t be happier.
4. My happy parents - my parents raised six kids on their own and even if they were heavily burdened with all the education bills, they hanged on. Now four of us are already professionals and the younger two who are still in the university are doing well. My parents are very happy and their happiness influence us.
5. My successful siblings - being an eldest of six, I took the responsibility towards my siblings seriously. I studied hard and finished my degree early with the help of a scholarship. I went abroad at an early age, strived to earn big and helped my parents finance my siblings´ undergraduate education. In return, my siblings worked hard, looked up to me and carved their own success.
As of now, my sister after me is a successful business woman. A brother graduated from nursing last year, immediately earned his license, got a good job and now prepares/trains for his plan to go abroad. Another brother is a teacher who enjoys working in the Philippines and whom, despite my persuasions, says he´s happy working for his country although he too considers trying his luck abroad.
The fifth sibling and the youngest of three brothers is currently in his third year taking mechanical engineering. He also earned certificates for his electrical trainings. Simultaneous to his studies in mechanical, he does apprenticeship in electrical field. My youngest sister on the other hand, the youngest of the six, is a freshman in computer engineering. I´m very happy and proud of them.
6. A visit to Paris - it was a long-time dream of mine to visit Paris. Last month, with God´s grace and with the help of my husband, we spent our summer vacation in Paris. God is so good.
7. My husband´s great job - I´m always thankful to God for giving my husband a job that he loves and that´s stable. He´s the main breadwinner and what I do is simply to support his income. Because he´s happy at work, his happiness also radiates when he´s at home.
8. A growing closet - because I´m a big fan of fashion, I thank God for giving me a big closet which continually grows.
9. Trustworthy friends - it´s not always that you find special and trustworthy friends. I found them and I´m very thankful for it. They´re scattered across the globe but we still keep in touch.
10. A great laptop and a fast internet connection - because what I do involves the internet, I´m thankful for the gift of a good laptop and internet connection. Through them, I am able to connect with the world and keep in touch with families and friends. They keep me from being lonely here in Europe.
So those are my top ten gifts, what about you? What are you most thankful of right now? Do this activity, write down on a piece of paper the ten things you´re thankful right now, then silently thank God through meditation. Have a great day!
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Friday, September 14, 2012
Sunday, September 9, 2012
Why I Need to Be More Thankful
Last Friday I was having an emotional struggle. My husband was aware that I was feeling unhappy and he comforted me blaming the change of the weather and some hormones as the cause of my sadness. But in fact, it was much more than that.
My husband´s effort to comfort me helped a ton but not completely. The struggle inside me was too much for me to beat in spite of my husband´s care and love. I knew there was one thing I had to do. I silently prayed.
Because I could not sleep, I went online to review the Bible lesson study we had for the past week. The next day, Saturday which is the sabbath, the lesson will be discussed among the members in the church. For some reasons, the words of wisdom in the lesson were targeted towards me.
Joy in life is a fruit of the Spirit (Gal. 5:22; see also Phil. 4:4). Open your eyes. The gifts of God are all around us; we just forget to thank Him for them—often because we’re so focused on the trials and struggles of living. If we would cultivate an attitude of thankfulness to God more and more, our walk with Him would be much closer and our lives would be filled with joy. ~ SDA Lesson Study Sept 4
These words were really a turning point for me. Whoever causes my grief and whatever trials are there that cause my sadness, I should focus with the good things instead and be more thankful because in the process, I become joyful and happy. It made me feel so much better.
photo credit: wehearit.com
My husband´s effort to comfort me helped a ton but not completely. The struggle inside me was too much for me to beat in spite of my husband´s care and love. I knew there was one thing I had to do. I silently prayed.
Because I could not sleep, I went online to review the Bible lesson study we had for the past week. The next day, Saturday which is the sabbath, the lesson will be discussed among the members in the church. For some reasons, the words of wisdom in the lesson were targeted towards me.
Joy in life is a fruit of the Spirit (Gal. 5:22; see also Phil. 4:4). Open your eyes. The gifts of God are all around us; we just forget to thank Him for them—often because we’re so focused on the trials and struggles of living. If we would cultivate an attitude of thankfulness to God more and more, our walk with Him would be much closer and our lives would be filled with joy. ~ SDA Lesson Study Sept 4
These words were really a turning point for me. Whoever causes my grief and whatever trials are there that cause my sadness, I should focus with the good things instead and be more thankful because in the process, I become joyful and happy. It made me feel so much better.
photo credit: wehearit.com
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